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Texting the Girl You Just Met!

You know how it is with texting girls, it can be trouble. A simple mistake can blow your chances with her. Learn the skills needed to get the girl over text, it's a must these days, you know. Your purpose for texting a girls should always be getting dates. It's up to you if you want to share what you know will all the other dudes you know.


They assume that the reason the girl loses interest is because she didn't like him. But most of the time, the real reason is he didn't keep her interested enough using texts. It may take some time if you're not meeting new girls and getting numbers but you can improve your texting. Find out when to get in touch and some powerful techniques to make her crave you. It will be easier if you know the mistakes to overcome when texting girls.  Don't send her anything that might bore her to tears, that's the first. Make it seem like you're different from all the other guys texting her all the time.


Another one you need to avoid is text the girl too often. Use text messages to create intrigue and suspense.


Avoid sending her too many text at a time, wait for her to read them at least. Don't talk to her too long over text, there's a better place for that, you know. If you really like her, make sure you do it right. Don't show too much enthusiasm when you reply to her, too. In case it's your first text, even in magnetic messaging pdf, you can send her a text sooner than you think. You don't want to wait too long when it's the first text, doing so will only make your chances worse. Send that important first text fast and she'll thank you for it.


You'll be easily remembered and you're still fresh in her mind. Don't make it hard for her to remember you, remember that when you get her number. Alright? You won't get that awkward who's this message anymore. Her attention is already divided when you know she goes out more than twice a week. Don't leave things to chance, thinking she'll remember you when you text her.


She'll only drop any sort of interest she had when you met her if you wait. Because you're not the only person on her phone she's getting messages from. And it can't be anything lame either, you gotta start out right so do it right the first time. Don't be boring when you text her so she won't forget the fun times with you when you met her. Just think of it as continuing where you left off when you met her for the first time that night. Quite simple, right?


You don't have to be a genius to do this. Start with something you remember about her or something you talked about. And before you send her the text, think whether she would reply or not. Ponder within yourself whether what you're sending her is good enough to get a reply. A good indication is if that thing you're sending her is funny to you.


Be Careful With Your Messages

You should never let how much you like her take over.


I know you know when it's happening to you and it's time to take a step back. Never let it overcome you if you don't want to be her puppy thrown away. The dangers of this is clear as day, neediness and desperation gets a power up. You can even be exhibiting jealous behavior and that will kill any attraction she has for you. It can even make her think twice before meeting you again. And that's not good.


Think about it, if you don't even know that much about her, you can't be that jealous of anything in the first place. If she's not paying enough attention at you, don't feel bad about it. Instead, let her know you're not like all the guys she know. Don't forget that there other girls on your phone better than her. And beware of sending anything too needy or anything needy at all. It can kill attraction instantly than any other way. Don't text her back immediately every single time.


Take a little time and wait and don't be too eager. You don't have to send her any more text if you don't need to. It should be about the same or less. Don't get too happy with emoticons, either. Don't be texting her when you're drunk or bored or when you're not thinking clearly. Don't seek any validation from her and send only texts shw'll want to respond to.


And don't risk getting into the friend zone by having mindless talks. Don't fall into that trap of just being friends with her. Why not just tease her and build more attraction. GIve her the impression that you're always having fun. You don't want to be anything like any body she knows. Be unique in your own special way. Tease her as you would a girl who you're close with. This should make her keep thinking about you. If you can make her wonder if she should be with you having fun, do it. If you can ignore some of her question, do it. You don't have to answer everything.


It can even be vague and short, just make sure it has your personality embedded in every word. Don't put her on the spot with some boring question you used to send. Keep in mind that you're not in an interview so avoid the questions already. Remember to include some personality to a message that will make her want to respond. Make her laughing out loud and get her addicted to your text messages. You can do that. Even on the first text, a good joke works all the time, even lame ones.


But don't be too predictable with everything you do. Keep her guessing, too. So every time you want to text her, you can wait before you send it. It's up to you. This will make her think about you and makes her wait. It also makes her excited every time she waits for the texts you're about to send her. Don't forget this critical part every time you send her a message.